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December 26

Merry Christmas,Guys~

Merry Christmas & 圣诞快乐
July 26

无题

Elliott Yamin-Wait For You ....爱上这首曲子, 爱上背景的钢琴solo,爱上这种感觉......在霉运成灾的这个月里,能找到这首歌是我最大的安慰``lolz ~peace !
June 10

朋友,好走!

最近的一个月是个悲伤的季节......
 
不知道该说什么,心里安静的响起一首歌......
 
祝你一路顺风
 
那一天知道你要走
我们一句话也没有说
当午夜的钟声敲痛离别的心门
却打不开我深深的沈默
那一天送你送到最后
我们一句话也没有留
当拥挤的月台挤痛送别的人们
却挤不掉我深深的离愁

我知道你有千言你有万语却不肯说出口
你知道我好担心我好难过却不敢说出口

当你背上行囊卸下那份荣耀
我只能让眼泪留在心底
面带着微微笑用力的挥挥手
祝你一路顺风

当你踏上月台从此一个人走
我只能深深的祝福你
深深的祝福你最亲爱的朋友
祝你一路顺风
那一天送你送到最后
我们一句话也没有留
当拥挤的月台挤痛送别的人们
却挤不掉我深深的离愁

我知道你有千言你有万语却不肯说出口
你知道我好担心我好难过却不敢说出口
当你背上行囊卸下那份荣耀
我只能让眼泪留在心底
面带着微微笑用力的挥挥手
祝你一路顺风

当你踏上月台从此一个人走
我只能深深的祝福你
深深的祝福你最亲爱的朋友
祝你一路顺风....Michael, Victor, Chengyinzhao,......
 
April 28

Sick...

Finally, I got sick..........dun wanna talk , move, eat, play,sleep,study....what else can I do?
April 03

Tears rained down from sky

April 3rd......Rainy...staring out at the rain with a heavy heart...
...walked in the pouring rain.....Let it rain....
" Why can't I breathe whenever I think about you
 Why can't I speak whenever I talk about you
 It's inevitable, it's a fact that we're gonna get down to it
  So tell me
  Why can't I breathe whenever I think about you " ---' Why can't I '  by  LIZ PHAIR

February 27

You are what you think. You feel what you want

 The Power of Positive Thinking

Key Point
You are what you think. You feel what you want.


Why Think Positively?

All of our feelings, beliefs and knowledge are based on our internal thoughts, both conscious and subconscious. We are in control, whether we know it or not.

Aim high and do your best

We can be positive or negative, enthusiastic or dull, active or passive.

The biggest difference between people is their attitudes. For some, learning is enjoyable and exciting. For others, learning is a drudgery. For many, learning is just okay, something required on the road to a job.

"Most folks are about as happy as they
make up their minds to be."

Abraham Lincoln

Our present attitudes are habits, built from the feedback of parents, friends, society and self, that form our self-image and our world-image.

These attitudes are maintained by the inner conversations we constantly have with ourselves, both consciously and subconsciously.

The first step in changing our attitudes is to change our inner conversations.

What Should We Be Saying?

One approach is called the three C's: Commitment, Control and Challenge.

Commitment
Make a positive commitment to yourself, to learning, work, family, friends, nature, and other worthwhile causes. Praise yourself and others. Dream of success. Be enthusiastic.

Control
Keep your mind focused on important things. Set goals and priorities for what you think and do. Visualize to practice your actions. Develop a strategy for dealing with problems. Learn to relax. Enjoy successes. Be honest with yourself.

Challenge
Be courageous. Change and improve each day. Do your best and don't look back. See learning and change as opportunities. Try new things. Consider several options. Meet new people. Ask lots of questions. Keep track of your mental and physical health. Be optimistic.

Studies show that people with these characteristics are winners in good times and survivors in hard times.

Research shows that,
"... people who begin consciously to modify their inner conversations and assumptions report an almost immediate improvement in their performance. Their energy increases and things seem to go better ..."

Commitment, control and challenge help build self-esteem and promote positive thinking. Here are some other suggestions.

7 Suggestions for Building Positive Attitudes
  • In every class, look for positive people to associate with.
  • In every lecture, look for one more interesting idea.
  • In every chapter, find one more concept important to you.
  • With every friend, explain a new idea you've just learned.
  • With every teacher, ask a question.
  • With yourself, keep a list of your goals, positive thoughts and actions.
  • Remember, you are what you think, you feel what you want.
 

 

 


January 01

新年快乐~

Happy New Year Guys~!
November 28

Freedom

一点都不清闲,脑子却强迫自己安静下来,无端端的想到威廉·华莱士最后喊出的话: Freedom ! 从小我就渴望自由,感觉小孩受到的束缚太多太多,这个不能看,那个不能做,一种反抗的心理在孕育着,I wanna freedom! 长大后才知道那时的单纯无知,而现在的感觉是 Freedom's just another word for nothing left to lose......
                                                                               To be continue......
July 22

What Am I Running For?

     深深的吸一口气,安静的起跑,穿过屋旁的林荫小道,半废弃的铁轨,高耸的教堂,沉睡的思绪也开始慢慢苏醒.清晨的宁静给人一种幸福的感觉,奔跑的时候总会问自己同一个问题,what am i running for? 得到的答案确都不一样,但相同是,不想停下,不想放弃,不想认输.....
  鉴于反应良好,马上写续集..
  晚跑篇..
  Friday night,12点在DC无聊完后,书包放在K-zone john那,开始挑战一下从学校往家跑,感觉和晨跑很不一样,路边醉酒的男男女女,大声的叫嚷,闪着红灯的警车,地上破碎的玻璃瓶,呕吐过的恶臭,跑过一车牌,发现以被人揣到横到一边,生活也需要这样的糜烂,需要一个空间去发泄,马路对面迎面而来的人用力的向我挥挥手,象征性的回了一下,转到小道上,嘈杂声越来越远,灯光越来越暗,终于一切都安静下来,听见的只有自己急促的呼吸,隐约看见住的apartment,开始加速,跑到门口,13分45秒,应该可以短点...